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How to Invite Your Crush to Your Birthday Party
Hey birthday girls!
No matter how old you are, there are only a few things more exciting for a girl than having a new love interest in her life (BIRTHDAYS of course!). Suddenly, every text message becomes part of a game of strategy, and every night out becomes an exciting possibility to bump into him. Obviously, if you’re having a fabulous birthday party for yourself, you want him to be there for a variety of reasons. You'll probably get your best birthday outfit on, makeup, hair, etc so he’ll see you looking like a knockout while being the center of attention in your birthday outfit, no doubt. Most importantly, all of your friends will be there for your birthday party, so this is a prime opportunity to get their opinion on your new boy. How you should invite your crush to your birthday party will depend on how serious of a crush he is, so we’ve broken it down into 3 categories.
1) The Newbie: This is the guy that you’ve just met and don’t know very well. You’ve Googled his name and creeped his Facebook, but you really haven’t spent that much time with him. You don’t want to appear desperate or seem too eager for him to come to your birthday party, but you want him there just in case. Ask one of your friends to invite him and a couple of his close friends to your Facebook event, or casually text him to stop by with some of him buddies on the day of your birthday party. Keep it cool, and you'll do just fine getting him to your birthday party.
2) The Toyfriend: You’ve probably gone on a few dates with this guy and maybe even hooked up with him. Even though you like him, it’s not quite serious, but maybe it could be exclusive . . . someday! Who knows?! Drop the hint that you're having a birthday party when you hang out with him and tell him that he should come to your birthday party. Letting him know earlier will allow him to clear his schedule to make sure he can be there, and if you really like him, tell him you can add him to your guest-list. If he doesn't come to your birthday party then no big deal! Maybe you'll find someone else...
3) The Real Deal: This is the last level of the “crush” before the relationship turns into something more serious. This is the, you want to be exclusive with him level and what better way to solidify that is to get him to your birthday party! To be honest, your birthday party just wouldn’t feel right without him there. At this point, you should ask him ahead of time in person on a more personal level if he can come to your birthday party. Let him know that you want him there, and if you feel this strongly about him, chances are he feels the same way about you and wouldn’t miss it. Keep the communication clear, and let your feelings be heard with this birthday idea strategy!
Your birthday is important so whoever comes to your birthday party is important to know, so don’t be shy when you're inviting your crush. If you want him there, let him know. After all, it's pretty hard for anyone to turn down a girl on her birthday.
27 Responses
Anonymous
I’m really close with this guy as bestfriends and this week we got way closer. My birthdays coming up on Saturday but I’m not rlly sure how to ask him to come? Plzzz help preferably answer before Monday or Tuesday
Anonymous
Ok so I’m 13 turning 14 in December, there is this really cute, tall 14 year old in my class. My birthday is coming up soon and i barely talk to him and I’m inviting my two girl besties. If i want him to come to a 3 girl party what do I️ do?
Amy Ashley
I love this boy called James Leathem but he already has a girl what do I do
Veronica
There is this boy that I like he doesn’t even know but I don’t know how to invite him 12th birthday and I am scared to ask him. What do I do?
Anonymous
I am in 6th grade and there is this boy I like. None of my friends know I like him. He doesn’t even know. Only I do. I want to invite him in 2 years to my b-day party. Should i? How? I would be embarrassed if people teased me.
heather
I really want to invite my crush to my birthday party but I can’t find a way to ask him or tell him to go. and I feel like he won’t come and I’ve been thinking about this
a lot and I want him to come
Rosezlia brown
My may 11 2003
Anymous anymous
I wanna invite a guy to my birthday party I don’t really like him like not even as friends but I wanna talk to him about some stuff I don’t know what to do pls help me
Jenny
There’s this 14 year old in my class and I love him. On Tuesday during lunch, I was standing by him and he complimented my hair. Today, he said that I was fast and agile and he would love to be my partner on the track team. Does he love me back or just trying to impress someone else? He has a girlfriend, but I can tell he wants to end it. What should I do? Btw I’m 12
Aislinn
He’s my neighbour and i have known him for about 3 years and about 1 month ago via instagram he texted me that he like me. my birthday is in may. i was thinking of invitieing him. but how……????????????
Anonymous
I’m only 11, and we have this thing called funtastic Friday once a month, and my crush always goes. I always want to tAlked to him when I’m there but I’m too shy, pls help me!
Anonymous
I’m only 11, and we have this thing called funtastic Friday once a month, and my crush always goes. I always want to tAlked to him when I’m there but I’m too shy, pls help me!
Anonymous
I’m only 11, and we have this thing called funtastic Friday once a month, and my crush always goes. I always want to tAlked to him when I’m there but I’m too shy, pls help me!
Natalee
I really want to invite my crush, Parker Haas, but I am scared. Please email me the answer.
Arianna
I have a HUGE crush on this guy he’s a year older then I am, we see eachother around school but I want him to notice me, he know I like him and stuff but my sweet 16 is next year and I want to invite him, should I. HELP
Pepsi
A boy I knew from my old school last year (I moved to another school close by) just got his Dad to call me and ask if I wanna come to his party this friday. I said yeah, and then found out that I was the only girl going (awkward). He was always trying to walk home with me last year.
Is there a chance he likes me?…
Plz help I need to know (preferably before friday)
Can u talk to me vier my gmail. Thxs
Elizabeth
There is this guy who is in grade 12 and I am totally crushing on him, he barely knows me, but one time he moved his fingers accros my face in a gentle way. But I’m not sure if he really likes me I mean he doesn’t even know my name. Know I’m having a sweet 16 glow in the dark pool party in a few months and I really want to invite him but I don’t know what to say or how to do it. Plz give me more advice through my gmail.
Rebecca
We have been friends since we were toddlers, and we r just now getting close….if ya know what I mean…he always says yes, so why am I on here u ask? My sister wants me to invite her crush….
Katie
I want to ask him but I am just too scared I don’t know how to ask him I’m afraid he will say no.
Amy
I just asked my crush if he wanted to come, he said yeah. I hope he comes…
halsu
Id ask him last year for just a hangout and he rejected and next time he went but returned from halfway _ now what?? but I’ll invite him let’s c if he comes because he called me himself on his birthday and I wished him _
C
I’m too shy ! I tried to ask him last year for my birthday but I chickened out and dint invite him!!!!! I always am brave in my mind but really I’m shy- ugh!!!! I hope I can gather enough courage to invite him this year!
Chloe
Instead of me asking him, he asked me instead! LOL!
O
I’ve already asked if he’d come if I had a party and he said yes I’m just scared to tell him the details now, like, what if he’s changed his mind :(
kylie
Im scaared if i ask him but imma try
sophia
I hope this works…
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Azshidai
May 12, 2018
Me and my bf been together for 5 months and my birthday is coming up next month and I want him to spend it with me but he is always working and I don’t know how to make him take off for my birthday to spend my birthday with me and it would really mean a lot to me if he would just take a couple of days off make me happy on my birthday and be their for me if he takes off for my birthday that would be really good for me if he does.