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How to Invite Your Crush to Your Birthday Party

 

Hey birthday girls!

No matter how old you are, there are only a few things more exciting for a girl than having a new love interest in her life (BIRTHDAYS of course!). Suddenly, every text message becomes part of a game of strategy, and every night out becomes an exciting possibility to bump into him. Obviously, if you’re having a fabulous birthday party for yourself, you want him to be there for a variety of reasons. You'll probably get your best birthday outfit on, makeup, hair, etc so he’ll see you looking like a knockout while being the center of attention in your birthday outfit, no doubt. Most importantly, all of your friends will be there for your birthday party, so this is a prime opportunity to get their opinion on your new boy. How you should invite your crush to your birthday party will depend on how serious of a crush he is, so we’ve broken it down into 3 categories.

1) The Newbie: This is the guy that you’ve just met and don’t know very well. You’ve Googled his name and creeped his Facebook, but you really haven’t spent that much time with him. You don’t want to appear desperate or seem too eager for him to come to your birthday party, but you want him there just in case. Ask one of your friends to invite him and a couple of his close friends to your Facebook event, or casually text him to stop by with some of him buddies on the day of your birthday party. Keep it cool, and you'll do just fine getting him to your birthday party.

2) The Toyfriend: You’ve probably gone on a few dates with this guy and maybe even hooked up with him. Even though you like him, it’s not quite serious, but maybe it could be exclusive . . . someday! Who knows?! Drop the hint that you're having a birthday party when you hang out with him and tell him that he should come to your birthday party. Letting him know earlier will allow him to clear his schedule to make sure he can be there, and if you really like him, tell him you can add him to your guest-list. If he doesn't come to your birthday party then no big deal! Maybe you'll find someone else...

3) The Real Deal: This is the last level of the “crush” before the relationship turns into something more serious. This is the, you want to be exclusive with him level and what better way to solidify that is to get him to your birthday party! To be honest, your birthday party just wouldn’t feel right without him there. At this point, you should ask him ahead of time in person on a more personal level if he can come to your birthday party. Let him know that you want him there, and if you feel this strongly about him, chances are he feels the same way about you and wouldn’t miss it. Keep the communication clear, and let your feelings be heard with this birthday idea strategy!

Your birthday is important so whoever comes to your birthday party is important to know, so don’t be shy when you're inviting your crush. If you want him there, let him know. After all, it's pretty hard for anyone to turn down a girl on her birthday.

 

 

 

 

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23 comments

Mar 18, 2017

There is this boy that I like he doesn’t even know but I don’t know how to invite him 12th birthday and I am scared to ask him. What do I do?

Veronica
Oct 19, 2016

I am in 6th grade and there is this boy I like. None of my friends know I like him. He doesn’t even know. Only I do. I want to invite him in 2 years to my b-day party. Should i? How? I would be embarrassed if people teased me.

Anonymous
Sep 28, 2016

I really want to invite my crush to my birthday party but I can’t find a way to ask him or tell him to go. and I feel like he won’t come and I’ve been thinking about this
a lot and I want him to come

heather
Sep 23, 2016

My may 11 2003

Rosezlia brown
Jul 31, 2016

I wanna invite a guy to my birthday party I don’t really like him like not even as friends but I wanna talk to him about some stuff I don’t know what to do pls help me

Anymous anymous
Apr 14, 2016

There’s this 14 year old in my class and I love him. On Tuesday during lunch, I was standing by him and he complimented my hair. Today, he said that I was fast and agile and he would love to be my partner on the track team. Does he love me back or just trying to impress someone else? He has a girlfriend, but I can tell he wants to end it. What should I do? Btw I’m 12

Jenny
Apr 10, 2016

He’s my neighbour and i have known him for about 3 years and about 1 month ago via instagram he texted me that he like me. my birthday is in may. i was thinking of invitieing him. but how……????????????

Aislinn
Mar 30, 2016

I’m only 11, and we have this thing called funtastic Friday once a month, and my crush always goes. I always want to tAlked to him when I’m there but I’m too shy, pls help me!

Anonymous
Mar 30, 2016

I’m only 11, and we have this thing called funtastic Friday once a month, and my crush always goes. I always want to tAlked to him when I’m there but I’m too shy, pls help me!

Anonymous
Mar 30, 2016

I’m only 11, and we have this thing called funtastic Friday once a month, and my crush always goes. I always want to tAlked to him when I’m there but I’m too shy, pls help me!

Anonymous

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